A 26 year-old hipster comedian held forth on Comedy Central a couple of weeks ago. My wife and I laughed at him for a few minutes as he did his impressions of drunk young women and his friend who acted the gangsta’, even with his first words on getting up in the morning.
Then he launched into a routine making fun of religion. He once was a believing Roman Catholic, but now he has grown out of it.
I don’t mind making fun of religion. It helps us believers to remain humble about ourselves. But, really? At 26 years of age have you really lived enough to lose your faith? I immediately thought of Bob Dylan’s old song, with a line that went, “You say you lost your faith, but you know it’s not like that. You had no faith to begin with, and you know it.”
The trouble is, so few young comedians, actors, authors and celebrities of various kinds do know it. Of course it’s not as straightforward as they or Dylan think. It may feel that you are losing your faith when you are just losing a pale and immature version of faith. It may well be that what you are experiencing are the growing pains of faith.
Real faith takes a great deal of time. Real faith requires hard work. It is something that relentlessly pursues you through pain and doubt and despair. Genuine faith involves serious struggle with real life…over a lifetime.
The same weekend we saw the hipster comedian we also attended the funeral for Jim Smith. Jim was a guy who sparked our Saint Luke Lutheran Church congregation—a tiny band of the faithful I had the privilege of pastoring for 12 years—to raise phenomenal amounts of money for the Church World Service CROP Walk every year by doing his shameless musical-comedy routines every Sunday during Walk season at the beginning of service. For CROP Walks and other charities Jim would make up new weirdly wild words for his favorite hymn, “The Battle Hymn of the Republic;” and members would feel somehow that they simply had to empty their wallets for the sake of Jim as much as for the sake of feeding the hungry. Jim was the guy who once motivated the congregation to provide diapers for the poor by strutting across the chancel in red long-johns and a huge white nappy.
Jim was more than a prankster and comedian. He greeted every new visitor to church. And he pitched in whenever help was needed. But his wit and charm were his most notable talents. Jim helped everyone laugh at themselves and laugh at their troubles. Nothing was too serious to get down about because there was only one truly serious thing in the world—Redemption. Jim lived redemption because he was a long-sober recovering alcoholic who had a living realization of being loved back to life–one much like Ebenezer Scrooge’s the day after the three spirits visited him.
Part of Jim’s legacy was that he organized and supported Alcoholics Anonymous meetings at the Saint Luke. At Jim’s standing room only memorial service and the reception that followed there was an inexhaustible flow of testimony. Typical was the AA member’s who said, “Jim saved my life.”
One thing I thought of as I listened, was that there must have been at least one Jim Smith type among Jesus’ disciples. Jesus had to have had someone with a funny name—maybe it was Bartholomew—who kept things centered with humor and mischief. Life was undoubtedly tough for the disciples trodding along a rocky road of ministry, learning to carry their crosses to their own martyrdoms. So Jesus would have needed a Jim Smith type to keep the team laughing at the Devil and mindful of eternity and grace.
The other thing I thought of was aged wine—it comes into itself with time. You can’t lose your faith when you are in your 20s. You had no faith to begin with. Your faith, and your life, are still a-borning.
Jim Smith had died and been reborn before he realized how real and powerful is the grace of God. His faith flowered with age and he died at age 89 with a faith that had fully flowered. It was people who had also lived long lives who give proper testimony and say, “Jim saved my life, because he taught me what a Higher Power was.” The church at the memorial was full of people who doubtless had thought they had lost their faith many times before they finally learned what faith really is.
The greatest Christmas television episode of all time (in my humble opinion) was the first Christmas special for the BBC series “Call the Midwife.” The series deals with the gritty and bloody things young midwives faced in the 1950’s in the slums of East-End London. Toward the end of that holiday special, Vanessa Redgrave voices the thoughts of one young nurse when she says, “Faith cannot be questioned, only lived.”
Oh, certainly, doubt is a part of real faith. But in the end the answers come not in propositional answers to our intellectual doubts. The answer is the mysterious touch of God that comes through community made alive with word and sacrament. This is a mystery of strength in the very midst of weakness and doubt.
Christmas Day is just now over here on the farm. It has not been an easy December as we have had a good deal of bitter cold and an ice storm, and the drifts continue to rise and shift. Every day is a matter of dressing and undressing—getting on layers of long underwear, wool and down—to meet the elements. Get the Border Collies out five times a day, this season caring also for our son’s little Schnauzer-mix. Feeding them and Frodo the guard dog, the brood ewes, the two rams and the eight lambs. There are insulin shots for the Schnauzer, penicillin for a poorly ram, and maintenance pills for three of the sheepdogs and Frodo.
Meanwhile I often have thoughts that creep into my head, “Poor little me! What a drudge! How rotten can life be? Is there any point in it?”
And hidden behind all those thoughts is the cosmic idea, “What does it all mean?” And hidden just behind that is, “Who am I? Where is God? Does anything matter? Is there a fabric—a ribbon of meaning that flows with my memories, back through my parents to theirs and theirs and, finally, to a Maker? And does that Maker see and know? And does that Maker love enough to erase, finally, all the nonsense and loneliness and pain I have seen; and finally, finally, make it all count? Can this bitter cold that bites and devours and kills—can this be the signal of the End?”
It is at funeral services for old men like Jim, and like the service just the week before for Julie Wagner Cork, a young mother who beamed joyful, generous faith all her life—so much so that a whole community hurt badly at her passing and came to look to the pastors for hope and truth—it is at times like these that I am reminded and fortified once again. How could I forget? How dare I presume to question faith? I do not live in a frozen, shrinking cosmos—in a world made small to fit my moments of self-pity or selfishness. I live in a world made infinite with the giving and creativity and imagination and beauty of others. And these others are but branches—branches of a Vine that keeps on growing. This is what matters. This is what holds it all together.
I am stopped short in my rounds with the dogs in the bitter, stinging wind, to see shining ice on branches of trees that stretch out as far as my eyes can see. And well beyond.
Who am I to question?
Put on the layers of wool and down. Get out there and do my job. Welcome the exuberance of the dogs who leap into my lap and lick my face. Drink in the beauty. Let myself be swaddled in the fabric of it all.
Faith cannot be questioned. Only lived.
Very moving article about Jim and faith! I hope others at St. Luke read it as well. I’ll have to put something on our Facebook page about it.
Most of life takes a leap of faith, don’t you think? I tried explaining that to someone, concerning dogs. The person is a cat person and, I think, not understanding why anyone would take on the uncertainty of dogs. After all, dogs can all be different, they can come with issues–much like people! So, I told this cat lover that getting a dog really takes a leap of faith, much like making the decision to have a child.
Jim Smith was a funny guy, a convincing guy; you could just see the salesman in him. He was not the typical Lutheran (staid and laid-back). He seemed to love life despite its inevitable hardships. And, how he loved to applaud. Now, at the end of our services, it is usually uncomfortably quiet, unless someone is brave enough to say, “Let’s applaud for the soloist,” in tribute to Jim. Maybe that is a good way to describe Jim. He was brave.
I read the above at midnight and again this morning. There is much food for thought in your words and thank you for sharing with me and all that read your message. I have questioned my faith at times but soon remember how many times God has been beside me in time of need. After Leo died I felt this need to learn more about our Lord and my faith and I joined a Bible class at church (I had never attended one before).
Again thank you for sharing and may God Bless you and Connie and may 2014 be a Healthy and Happy year for you both and the family you care for daily.
Thank you so much for your comments. It was brave of you to get into a Bible study at that point in your life. It is too easy to turn away from questions with the thought that if there are no answers that quickly come then the quest is too painful. But sometimes the answers come with more questions or with some sort of mysterious strength or comfort that is gradual and impossible to speak of.
To me your life and witness have been obvious and strong.
I pray too for you to have an adventurous and joy-filled New Year.
Thank you, Gina, for your comments.
Certainly Jim was not a typical anything. Though your comments make me wonder what a typical Lutheran, staid and laid-back, looks like. I wonder if I’m one? I wonder if Lutherans, when scratched, look a great deal like others.
Saint Luke was blessed by some very sincere applauders, with Don Thompson and Jim Smith. With others of us typical Lutherans it’s a bit like white guys trying to act black.
All I know is that I very much appreciate the people who fail to contain their overwhelming exuberance for God’s love. They feel it and then they just can’t help themselves.
Of course, in any group, especially of staid Lutherans, we have those who are bothered. Let’s just try to make room for all our types in the vast Body of Christ. It’s full of uncertainty, like the dogs with their “issues,” but it’s worth it in the end.
John, thank you for sharing your thoughts about Smith. So true. I hope you don’t mind my sharing with family and friends that were speial in his life. You knew Jim, who he was and the way he was. I loved the tribute at the Memorial but the graveside was the special one, thank you for being apart of that and watching it become a warm lovely memory. Think one of the most special (beside you being with us) was Jan
spontaneously taking Jim’s Urn and placing her father next to her mother.
Jim had two lives, Connie, and I was fortunate to be apart of the second. He was not only my best friend but had too much to share and teach me. He introduced me to St. Luke and you
by your simple phone call to Cleveland Clinic that made me want to
know what it would be like to be a member of St. Luke.
Thank you John (and the midwife Connie) for sharing Jim Smith in such a personal way.
Thank you so much for your touching comments.
One of my favorite passages of the Bible is Jesus comforting us with the good news that he is the Vine and we are the branches. I see the miracle of the resurrection every day in the lives of people who keep on loving and giving in defiance of death and discouragement. Jim Smith knew resurrection living and helped us all laugh in the face of adversity. But he was able to do that in his long and rich life because of people like Connie and you and many others.
St. Luke is so blessed that he helped bring you into our part of the branches.
Peace and Joy this Easter Day